This month, we recognize Multiple Sclerosis (MS) Awareness Month—a time to shine a light on a disease that affects nearly 1 million Americans. For me, MS is deeply personal. My mom suffered from the ailment for nearly a half-century before passing last summer.
MS is a chronic autoimmune disease that impacts the central nervous system, with widely varying effects. Some people experience mild symptoms, while others face severe fatigue, muscle weakness, difficulty balancing, and other life-altering challenges.
Before her diagnosis, my mother was an active, athletic woman. Mom played tennis and loved outdoor activities. In 1976, she began experiencing physical symptoms associated with MS and was ultimately diagnosed with the disease. Over the years, her motor skills deteriorated, and the simple activities we often take for granted became impossible. Eventually, my mother was unable to walk. Despite being confined to a scooter, she persevered and never complained. She even continued to work at Fort Monmouth almost until the day the base closed.
Though MS took a physical toll, it never broke my mom’s spirit. She refused to let the disease define her, always maintaining a positive outlook and deep love for life, family, and friends. Even as medical complications arose and hospital visits became more frequent, she faced every challenge with grace and resilience. Right up until passing last July, Mom remained strong, never allowing the disease to take away her joy, humor, and unwavering will to live.
It is also important to recognize that the effects of MS extend beyond those diagnosed to their families and caregivers. As my mother’s condition progressed, my father became her primary caregiver. Dad’s selflessness, patience, and unwavering devotion exemplified the quiet sacrifices so many caregivers make every day for loved ones impacted by MS.
The role of a caregiver is often overlooked, which is why organizations like the National Multiple Sclerosis Society are so critical. Not only do they fund groundbreaking research to combat MS and offer resources for those living with the disease, but they also provide vital support for caregivers who dedicate so much to helping loved ones navigate this challenging journey.
As a son who’s felt the impact of Multiple Sclerosis on a family firsthand, I’m steadfastly committed to spreading awareness and supporting those affected by MS—both those diagnosed and those who care for them. I am honored to join my fellow Monmouth County Commissioners in issuing a proclamation declaring March as Multiple Sclerosis Awareness Month. And I am extraordinarily proud to stand with the MS community to advocate for better treatments, more resources, and, ultimately, a cure.
